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Why Your 'Speech' Is Holding You Down
90% of men do this to themselves and don't even realize. I'm here to bring it to light.
Brother,
Watched a guy at the bar last night.
Good looking dude.
Well dressed.
But every other sentence was:
"Haha yeah I'm such a loser"
"My life's a joke anyway"
"At least I'm good at failing"
The women's faces said it all.
The men's respect vanished.
His social value was DEAD.
Self-deprecating humor isn't charming.
It's not relatable.
It's not attractive.
It's just broadcasting your wounds to the world.
Every "joke" about your failures?
Every "funny" comment about your struggles?
Every "humorous" jab at yourself?
That's NOT humor.
That's self-sabotage with a laugh track.
Stay strong,
ELITE MASCULINE