How I Stopped Being a 'Dancing Monkey'

And How This Concept Might Be Hurting Your Interactions With Hot Beautiful Women Today

Brother….

Yesterday I told you why you can't "learn" game.

And you might be wondering what kind of BANGER of an email I may be writing today.

Listen:

Today I'm going to show you EXACTLY step-by-step how I transitioned from being a try-hard pickup artist to a naturally attractive man who effortlessly creates incredible experiences with beautiful women.

But first, let me ask you something:

Have you ever seen those dancing monkeys at street shows? (Serious question)

You know the ones...

Dressed in little outfits, doing tricks for treats, dancing to someone else's tune…

Well, that was ME when I first got into ‘game.’

Wearing the exact outfits the PUAs recommended, using their exact lines, dancing to their exact tune…

And you know what?

Sometimes it actually worked. I got their Instagram and had fantastic dates with these women (and fantastic nights too).

But that’s normal. Just like sometimes the dancing monkey gets his treat.

But deep down I felt like a FRAUD.

Because that wasn't exactly ME. That was just me playing a character.

And trust me brother - women can TELL the difference.

They might play along... they might even give you their number... But they're not attracted to YOU.

They're attracted to your performance.

If you stop the performance, the attraction stops too.

This is why most guys who "learn game" can't keep beautiful women around.

The moment they stop performing...

*poof*

She's gone.

And she’s gone 100% of the times with some other man whose personality doesn’t just attract beautiful women ‘sometimes‘ but ALWAYS.

Everything changed for me when I realized that REAL ATTRACTION isn't about what you DO but about who you ARE.

Let that sink in for a moment.

You see,

While most guys are busy learning new tricks... the naturally attractive man is busy building his LIFE.
While most guys are memorizing routines... the naturally attractive man is creating stories worth telling.
While most guys are practicing their "alpha male walk"... the naturally attractive man is walking his path with purpose.

The difference?

One is trying to GET something from women.

The other is offering women a chance to JOIN him.

And that right there is the ONE THING that changed everything for me.

I stopped trying to GET women... and started focusing on BECOMING the kind of man women want to be around.

How?

By following what I now call the Sovereign Seducer Code:

1. Build a life that excites YOU first
2. Create experiences that YOU enjoy
3. Tell stories that make YOU laugh
4. Live by standards that make YOU proud
5. Chase goals that make YOU fulfilled

Notice something?

None of these have anything to do with women directly.

Yet EVERYTHING has to do with attracting them naturally.

Because the moment you stop chasing women... is the moment they start chasing you.

The moment you stop performing... is the moment you start attracting.

The moment you stop being a dancing monkey... is the moment you start being a MAN.

And brother… that's what BE A MAN is really about. I am not really teaching you new tricks because I am actually helping you SHED the old ones.

I am not giving you lines to memorize but actually helping you find YOUR voice.

I am not turning you into someone else but unleashing who you REALLY are.

Because that's what women REALLY want.

Not another dancing monkey but a man who knows who he is and lives it unapologetically.

Tomorrow I'll show you the exact system I used to make this transition. (Hint: It has nothing to do with pickup lines and everything to do with lifestyle)

ELITE MASCULINE

P.S. Some guys have been asking about BE A MAN... (cmon bro I write about it almost every day!)

And yes, it's still available.

But no, it's not for everyone.

If you're looking for quick fixes and pickup lines, this isn't for you. But if you're ready to stop performing and start living?